20 Things To Treat Yo’ Self To That’ll Help You Relax While Wedding Planning

by Raj Desai | 10/25/21

All products listed were in stock and priced as shown at the time this was written. Dulhan may be compensated for some of the following recommendations.

Illustration of woman soaking in tub

I was terrible about practicing self-care when I planned my wedding.


You know how it is. You’re so busy studying, working, planning, and trying to get through the day that carving out time to just be can feel…selfish.


Well, it’s not!


In fact, I’d argue that your mental health and emotional wellbeing are the MOST important things to focus on leading up to your wedding. Especially when you’re dodging curveballs left and right (just send in the damn RSVPs, people!).


If you’re calm, centered, and zen, those things probably won’t phase you…as much (I mean, it *is* still your wedding 🤷🏾‍♀️).

Whether it’s a hot cup of tea while you soak in the tub, your favorite book coupled with a fizzy cocktail, or a few precious minutes of meditation, find meaningful ways to disconnect, recharge, and enjoy the journey (roller coaster?) that is wedding planning.


And if you need help finding the right tools to help you do that, I got you! Check out this list to self-care your way to your wedding day.

Oatmeal Honey Gift Set

Picture of oatmeal honey bridal gift set

Smudge Sticks

Picture of blue sage and rose smudge sticks

Self-care Pamper Gift Box


Bride Chilla Candle

Picture of pink candle for brides

Shower Steamer

6 pack of shower steamers

Calming Anti-Anxiety Stone Set

Picture of calming anti-anxiety stone set

The Witch's Book of Self-Care

Price: $18.99

Buy the book here


CBD Balm

Picture of CBD balm tin

Wellness Planner

Price: $1.38

Buy the planner here

Wellness printable planner

Meditation Book

Price: $23

Buy the book here

heavily meditated

Mindfulness Cards

Price: $14.35

Buy the cards here

Picture of mind cards pack

Instant Champagne Cocktail Kit

Price: $32

Buy the kit here

Champagne cocktail kit

Microwave Heat Pad

Price: $15.95+

Buy the heating pad here

Picture of yellow microwave heating pad

White Sage + Selenite Smudge Sticks

Large white sage and white selenite mudge sticks

The Morning Mindset Mug

Price: $15.76

Buy the mug here

Morning Mindset Mug

Bride-to-be Teacup and Saucer

Teacup and saucer

Self-care Mystery Box

Illustration of self-care mystery box

Self-Care Mini Reference Guide

Self-care illustrated guide

Weighted Eye Mask

Picture of patterned weighted eye masks

Wellness Wedding Planner

Picture of blue wedding wellness planner

Raj Desai

Content strategist and UX writer who’s been researching and writing about weddings for 5 years. Addicted to Netflix, dirty martinis, and naps.